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Cooler days, cozier care. Queer self-care isn’t just comfort—it’s grounding, affirming, and radical. Prioritize rest, creative...

Heading back go school? Fear not! There are spaces, resources, and communities to help queer students feel seen, supported, and...

New season, new routines, same beautiful you. ✨ This back to school season, take time to set intentions, protect your energy, and...

Not sure what to bring to one of our events? We’ve got you. Whether it’s snacks, a sketchbook, a fidget toy, or just yourself, there’s no...

Joining a new space can be overwhelming—we get it. That’s why we’ve built our server to be low-pressure, affirming, and easy to ease...

Whether it’s your first time ever or just your first time with us, our events are designed to be low-pressure, cozy, and affirming. From...

Queer green flags aren’t always loud, sometimes they’re just felt. It’s the comfort, the care, and the quiet “you’re safe here” energy....

ou deserve to be surrounded by people who get it—who get you. When community feels like comfort, safety, and belonging… you’ve found your...

Real words from real members. When we say community-first, we mean it. Whether you’re a longtime lurker, a creative soul, or just...

There’s nothing like finding a space where you’re seen, celebrated, and surrounded by people who just get it. 💬💖 Whether you’re here to...

That you need to party to have fun or make friends      → We’re building cozy spaces where quiet is welcomed, not questioned. That...

Social events can be scary! Use these reminders to help you stay calm when you’re feeling anxious. Let us know below if any of them help...

Setting boundaries isn’t selfish, it’s necessary. If you’ve ever felt guilty for saying no or prioritizing your needs, you’re not alone....

When you’re feeling overwhelmed, even basic self-care can feel like too much. Instead of pushing yourself to do everything, try starting...

A truly supportive community feels safe, inclusive, and uplifting—but what does that actually look like? From open communication to...

You are valid. You are loved. You are enough—exactly as you are. No matter what the world says, your identity is real, your feelings are...

A little message for our cishet friends and allies. Educate Yourself (Without Expecting Queer People to Teach You) Ways to educate...

Why affirmations are important: Undoing Internalized Shame & Self-Doubt Many queer people grow up in environments where they are subtly...

Accessibility creates true participation A space can only be truly inclusive if it’s accessible to the people it claims to welcome. This...

We want everyone to feel welcome, respected, and supported. Our inclusivity guidelines help ensure our events and spaces are safe for all...